Conscious Parenting For Confident & Successful Kids // Similar to Focus on the Family, Parental Guidance, TEDTalks http://buildgreatminds.com How To Raise Confident, Happy & Successful Kids Fri, 21 Jul 2017 03:14:19 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.5.10 In this new global era, your child’s EQ (Emotional Intelligence) will be far more important than IQ. High EQ is responsible for great leadership skills, confidence, happiness and can determine who flourishes and who flounders. Listen in to these engaging talks and learn about EQ, through interesting interviews, ideas and discussions you will build your own consciousness in this area. Then learn what to say and do to build this crucial skill so your kids can carve a life they get excited about. Rhea Lalla: Author & Parent Coach clean Rhea Lalla: Author & Parent Coach rhea@buildgreatminds.com rhea@buildgreatminds.com (Rhea Lalla: Author & Parent Coach) © 2014 BuildGreatMinds.com How To Raise Confident, Successful & Happy Kids Conscious Parenting For Confident & Successful Kids // Similar to Focus on the Family, Parental Guidance, TEDTalks http://buildgreatminds.com/wp-content/uploads/powerpress/BGM_3000.jpg http://buildgreatminds.com TV-G BGM 016: Conflict http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-016-conflict/ Tue, 04 Apr 2017 14:53:10 +0000 http://buildgreatminds.com/?p=5964 http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-016-conflict/#respond http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-016-conflict/feed/ 0 <p>When kids have conflicts (friends and siblings) it can create such divides that parents feel like they are always stepping in and needing to resolve the issue and lead to some pretty unhappy kids. This can create tension on your adult friendships as both kids struggle to find a way through their conflict without whining […]</p> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-016-conflict/">BGM 016: Conflict</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="http://buildgreatminds.com">BuildGreatMinds.com</a>.</p>

When kids have conflicts (friends and siblings) it can create such divides that parents feel like they are always stepping in and needing to resolve the issue and lead to some pretty unhappy kids. This can create tension on your adult friendships as both kids struggle to find a way through their conflict without whining or arguing. Even if the conflict is between siblings this podcast will help kids become aware of their feelings and expressive in an empowered productive way and in the end, learn how to save friendships instead of avoiding them. Conflict is a tender subject since most of us are really in the dark when it comes to effective fighting, arguing, and disagreements, listen to this short podcasts on how to deal with conflicts between friends or siblings.

 

 

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When kids have conflicts (friends and siblings) it can create such divides that parents feel like they are always stepping in and needing to resolve the issue and lead to some pretty unhappy kids. This can create tension on your adult friendships as bo... When kids have conflicts (friends and siblings) it can create such divides that parents feel like they are always stepping in and needing to resolve the issue and lead to some pretty unhappy kids. This can create tension on your adult friendships as both kids struggle to find a way through their conflict without whining […] Rhea Lalla: Author & Parent Coach clean 9:22
BGM 015: Saying Sorry http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-015-saying-sorry/ Tue, 28 Feb 2017 13:24:22 +0000 http://buildgreatminds.com/?p=5909 http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-015-saying-sorry/#respond http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-015-saying-sorry/feed/ 0 <p>Do you apologize too much? Not enough? I rarely apologize anymore. Instead, I found something way more effective in my marriage and with my kids. This is the advanced way of saying I’m sorry. I know this is going to work much better for you to repair conflicts quickly. Click Here to Subscribe to the […]</p> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-015-saying-sorry/">BGM 015: Saying Sorry</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="http://buildgreatminds.com">BuildGreatMinds.com</a>.</p>

Do you apologize too much? Not enough?

I rarely apologize anymore. Instead, I found something way more effective in my marriage and with my kids.

This is the advanced way of saying I’m sorry. I know this is going to work much better for you to repair conflicts quickly.

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Do you apologize too much? Not enough? I rarely apologize anymore. Instead, I found something way more effective in my marriage and with my kids. This is the advanced way of saying I’m sorry. I know this is going to work much better for you to repair c... Do you apologize too much? Not enough? I rarely apologize anymore. Instead, I found something way more effective in my marriage and with my kids. This is the advanced way of saying I’m sorry. I know this is going to work much better for you to repair conflicts quickly. Click Here to Subscribe to the […] Rhea Lalla: Author & Parent Coach clean 6:49
BGM 005:How to Run the Ultimate Family Meeting So There Are Less Arguments, No Tantrums and Incredible Love and Connection http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-005-how-to-run-the-ultimate-family-meeting-so-there-are-less-arguments-no-tantrums-and-incredible-love-and-connection-2/ Sun, 27 Dec 2015 10:02:38 +0000 http://saranguyen.work/dev/?p=3886 http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-005-how-to-run-the-ultimate-family-meeting-so-there-are-less-arguments-no-tantrums-and-incredible-love-and-connection-2/#respond http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-005-how-to-run-the-ultimate-family-meeting-so-there-are-less-arguments-no-tantrums-and-incredible-love-and-connection-2/feed/ 0 <p>If you’ve ever wanted to change the entire family dynamic for the better, one of the surest ways to get there is holding Family Meetings. It’s a fun, engaging, effective way to create harmony between you and the kids, lower yours and your kids stress levels and create a connection with your kid/s that feels […]</p> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-005-how-to-run-the-ultimate-family-meeting-so-there-are-less-arguments-no-tantrums-and-incredible-love-and-connection-2/">BGM 005:How to Run the Ultimate Family Meeting So There Are Less Arguments, No Tantrums and Incredible Love and Connection</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="http://buildgreatminds.com">BuildGreatMinds.com</a>.</p>

If you’ve ever wanted to change the entire family dynamic for the better, one of the surest ways to get there is holding Family Meetings. It’s a fun, engaging, effective way to create harmony between you and the kids, lower yours and your kids stress levels and create a connection with your kid/s that feels pretty darn magical! It just takes a moment to understand the process but I walk you through how to run a great one, step by step in this episode, so you are set up for success!

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If you’ve ever wanted to change the entire family dynamic for the better, one of the surest ways to get there is holding Family Meetings. It’s a fun, engaging, effective way to create harmony between you and the kids, If you’ve ever wanted to change the entire family dynamic for the better, one of the surest ways to get there is holding Family Meetings. It’s a fun, engaging, effective way to create harmony between you and the kids, lower yours and your kids stress levels and create a connection with your kid/s that feels […] Rhea Lalla: Author & Parent Coach clean
BGM 004: How to Help Your Kids Find Their Passion http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-004-how-to-help-your-kids-find-their-passion/ Sun, 27 Dec 2015 10:00:46 +0000 http://saranguyen.work/dev/?p=3881 http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-004-how-to-help-your-kids-find-their-passion/#respond http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-004-how-to-help-your-kids-find-their-passion/feed/ 0 <p>In this short talk, I share a powerful way to handle situations where your child wants you (not needs you) and you are busy working on something important.  It’s been one of the most effective tips I can offer for helping kids discover their own passion while you pursue yours. Click Here to Subscribe to […]</p> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-004-how-to-help-your-kids-find-their-passion/">BGM 004: How to Help Your Kids Find Their Passion</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="http://buildgreatminds.com">BuildGreatMinds.com</a>.</p>

In this short talk, I share a powerful way to handle situations where your child wants you (not needs you) and you are busy working on something important.  It’s been one of the most effective tips I can offer for helping kids discover their own passion while you pursue yours.

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In this short talk, I share a powerful way to handle situations where your child wants you (not needs you) and you are busy working on something important.  It’s been one of the most effective tips I can offer for helping kids discover their own passio... In this short talk, I share a powerful way to handle situations where your child wants you (not needs you) and you are busy working on something important.  It’s been one of the most effective tips I can offer for helping kids discover their own passion while you pursue yours. Click Here to Subscribe to […] Rhea Lalla: Author & Parent Coach clean 3:45
BGM 003: Why You’ve Been Motivating Your Kids The Wrong Way http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-003-why-youve-been-motivating-your-kids-the-wrong-way/ Sun, 27 Dec 2015 09:57:34 +0000 http://saranguyen.work/dev/?p=3878 http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-003-why-youve-been-motivating-your-kids-the-wrong-way/#respond http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-003-why-youve-been-motivating-your-kids-the-wrong-way/feed/ 0 <p>As parents we tend to resort to two modes of motivation. We get louder and louder till our kids do what we want/ask We use some version of reward or punishment, we bribe or threaten. Deep inside you know that this change in behaviour is momentary, there is no deep internal dialogue and understanding achieved, […]</p> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-003-why-youve-been-motivating-your-kids-the-wrong-way/">BGM 003: Why You’ve Been Motivating Your Kids The Wrong Way</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="http://buildgreatminds.com">BuildGreatMinds.com</a>.</p>

As parents we tend to resort to two modes of motivation.

  1. We get louder and louder till our kids do what we want/ask
  2. We use some version of reward or punishment, we bribe or threaten.

Deep inside you know that this change in behaviour is momentary, there is no deep internal dialogue and understanding achieved, which is creates internal change.  In this podcast, find out the surprising and effective way to create heartfelt  and sustained internal motivation in your kids.

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As parents we tend to resort to two modes of motivation. We get louder and louder till our kids do what we want/ask We use some version of reward or punishment, we bribe or threaten. Deep inside you know that this change in behaviour is momentary, As parents we tend to resort to two modes of motivation. We get louder and louder till our kids do what we want/ask We use some version of reward or punishment, we bribe or threaten. Deep inside you know that this change in behaviour is momentary, there is no deep internal dialogue and understanding achieved, […] Rhea Lalla: Author & Parent Coach clean 9:07
BGM 002: What Is Emotional Intelligence (EQ) Anyway?? http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-002-what-is-emotional-intelligence-eq-anyway/ Sun, 27 Dec 2015 09:50:39 +0000 http://saranguyen.work/dev/?p=3875 http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-002-what-is-emotional-intelligence-eq-anyway/#respond http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-002-what-is-emotional-intelligence-eq-anyway/feed/ 0 <p>I’m often asked by parents what exactly is EQ  or Emotional Intelligence and why is it so important to my child’s success. In this podcast, if you are not quite sure what this means to you and your child, then I’m going to introduce you to this vital skill set that affects every meaningful aspect of […]</p> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-002-what-is-emotional-intelligence-eq-anyway/">BGM 002: What Is Emotional Intelligence (EQ) Anyway??</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="http://buildgreatminds.com">BuildGreatMinds.com</a>.</p>

I’m often asked by parents what exactly is EQ  or Emotional Intelligence and why is it so important to my child’s success.

In this podcast, if you are not quite sure what this means to you and your child, then I’m going to introduce you to this vital skill set that affects every meaningful aspect of your child’s life.

Knowing what Emotional Intelligence encompasses is the first step to ensuring your child is prepared and can ultimately create success in all areas of their lives and don’t get left behind.

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I’m often asked by parents what exactly is EQ  or Emotional Intelligence and why is it so important to my child’s success. In this podcast, if you are not quite sure what this means to you and your child, then I’m going to introduce you to this vital s... I’m often asked by parents what exactly is EQ  or Emotional Intelligence and why is it so important to my child’s success. In this podcast, if you are not quite sure what this means to you and your child, then I’m going to introduce you to this vital skill set that affects every meaningful aspect of […] Rhea Lalla: Author & Parent Coach clean 9:38
BGM 001: The Counter-Intuitive Way To Solve Challenging Situations http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-001-the-counter-intuitive-way-to-solve-challenging-situations-2/ Sun, 27 Dec 2015 07:46:14 +0000 http://saranguyen.work/dev/?p=3873 http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-001-the-counter-intuitive-way-to-solve-challenging-situations-2/#respond http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-001-the-counter-intuitive-way-to-solve-challenging-situations-2/feed/ 0 <p>In this particular podcast episode you will learn: How to create deep trust and intimacy consistently Become a parent who can calm your kids down Get your kids to listen Have your kids share absolutely everything about their life openly and often, without boundaries Click Here to Subscribe to the Podcast via iTunes Click Here […]</p> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-001-the-counter-intuitive-way-to-solve-challenging-situations-2/">BGM 001: The Counter-Intuitive Way To Solve Challenging Situations</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="http://buildgreatminds.com">BuildGreatMinds.com</a>.</p>

In this particular podcast episode you will learn:

  • How to create deep trust and intimacy consistently
  • Become a parent who can calm your kids down
  • Get your kids to listen
  • Have your kids share absolutely everything about their life openly and often, without boundaries

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In this particular podcast episode you will learn: How to create deep trust and intimacy consistently Become a parent who can calm your kids down Get your kids to listen Have your kids share absolutely everything about their life openly and often, In this particular podcast episode you will learn: How to create deep trust and intimacy consistently Become a parent who can calm your kids down Get your kids to listen Have your kids share absolutely everything about their life openly and often, without boundaries Click Here to Subscribe to the Podcast via iTunes Click Here […] Rhea Lalla: Author & Parent Coach clean
BGM 014: How to stop your kids from whining http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-014-how-to-stop-your-kids-from-whining/ Sat, 12 Dec 2015 02:37:50 +0000 http://saranguyen.work/dev/?p=3842 http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-014-how-to-stop-your-kids-from-whining/#respond http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-014-how-to-stop-your-kids-from-whining/feed/ 0 <p>Kids whining or sounding victimized is something that is learned. Kids do it because they see that it works. In this episode Rhea teaches you the trick to raising kids who ask for what they want in a more useful and productive way… so your kids can powerfully create the life they want. Let us […]</p> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-014-how-to-stop-your-kids-from-whining/">BGM 014: How to stop your kids from whining</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="http://buildgreatminds.com">BuildGreatMinds.com</a>.</p>

Kids whining or sounding victimized is something that is learned. Kids do it because they see that it works. In this episode Rhea teaches you the trick to raising kids who ask for what they want in a more useful and productive way… so your kids can powerfully create the life they want.

Let us know your thoughts in the comments section below.

Interested in getting more parenting tips? Head to www.BuildGreatMinds.com to get a FREE video series (and much more free stuff) on how you can stop tantrums, get kids to process emotions in healthy ways and have an incredibly loving connection with your kids.

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Kids whining or sounding victimized is something that is learned. Kids do it because they see that it works. In this episode Rhea teaches you the trick to raising kids who ask for what they want in a more useful and productive way… so your kids can pow... Kids whining or sounding victimized is something that is learned. Kids do it because they see that it works. In this episode Rhea teaches you the trick to raising kids who ask for what they want in a more useful and productive way… so your kids can powerfully create the life they want. Let us […] Rhea Lalla: Author & Parent Coach clean 6:59
BGM 013: How to discipline kids without feeling any guilt http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-013-how-to-discipline-kids-and-without-guilt/ Sat, 12 Dec 2015 02:36:52 +0000 http://saranguyen.work/dev/?p=3840 http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-013-how-to-discipline-kids-and-without-guilt/#respond http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-013-how-to-discipline-kids-and-without-guilt/feed/ 0 <p>How do you discipline your children? Most often discipline gets mixed up with punishment. In this episode Rhea shares how you can guide your children in the areas they need to, while keeping calm and staying emotionally connected with your kids. Listen in as Rhea shares a great way to discipline kids without feeling any […]</p> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-013-how-to-discipline-kids-and-without-guilt/">BGM 013: How to discipline kids without feeling any guilt</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="http://buildgreatminds.com">BuildGreatMinds.com</a>.</p>

How do you discipline your children? Most often discipline gets mixed up with punishment. In this episode Rhea shares how you can guide your children in the areas they need to, while keeping calm and staying emotionally connected with your kids. Listen in as Rhea shares a great way to discipline kids without feeling any guilt.

Let us know your thoughts in the comments section below.

Interested in getting more parenting tips? Head to www.BuildGreatMinds.com to get a FREE video series (and much more free stuff) on how you can stop tantrums, get kids to process emotions in healthy ways and have an incredibly loving connection with your kids.

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How do you discipline your children? Most often discipline gets mixed up with punishment. In this episode Rhea shares how you can guide your children in the areas they need to, while keeping calm and staying emotionally connected with your kids. How do you discipline your children? Most often discipline gets mixed up with punishment. In this episode Rhea shares how you can guide your children in the areas they need to, while keeping calm and staying emotionally connected with your kids. Listen in as Rhea shares a great way to discipline kids without feeling any […] Rhea Lalla: Author & Parent Coach clean 30:00
BGM 012: How to take perspectives and let go of our ego http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-012-how-to-take-perspectives-and-let-go-of-our-ego/ Thu, 26 Nov 2015 10:35:47 +0000 http://saranguyen.work/dev/?p=3822 http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-012-how-to-take-perspectives-and-let-go-of-our-ego/#respond http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-012-how-to-take-perspectives-and-let-go-of-our-ego/feed/ 0 <p>In this podcast I share the 2 most important skills sets in parenting, how to take perspectives and how to let go of our ego. You will get a glimpse of the havoc ego plays and what to do when we feel our ego is running the show. I will also share the value of […]</p> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="http://buildgreatminds.com/bgm-012-how-to-take-perspectives-and-let-go-of-our-ego/">BGM 012: How to take perspectives and let go of our ego</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="http://buildgreatminds.com">BuildGreatMinds.com</a>.</p>

In this podcast I share the 2 most important skills sets in parenting, how to take perspectives and how to let go of our ego. You will get a glimpse of the havoc ego plays and what to do when we feel our ego is running the show. I will also share the value of perspective taking and you learn how to use context to dig deep and understand our children’s actions.

Let us know your thoughts in the comments section below.

Interested in getting more parenting tips? Head to www.BuildGreatMinds.com to get a FREE video series (and much more free stuff) on how you can stop tantrums, get kids to process emotions in healthy ways and have an incredibly loving connection with your kids.

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In this podcast I share the 2 most important skills sets in parenting, how to take perspectives and how to let go of our ego. You will get a glimpse of the havoc ego plays and what to do when we feel our ego is running the show. In this podcast I share the 2 most important skills sets in parenting, how to take perspectives and how to let go of our ego. You will get a glimpse of the havoc ego plays and what to do when we feel our ego is running the show. I will also share the value of […] Rhea Lalla: Author & Parent Coach clean 18:26